This whole dating thing sucks!!

Ok I have gotten on a couple of dating sites..major waste of time..same people on every sight, I don't care if its a Christian or farmers only sight, its the same freaking people!! My daughters say Im too picky, but I don't want to settle, if he cant make my heart beat a little faster when I see him...then no deal!! and its not like it was when I was younger, I could go to the mall and have ten calls by the time I got home from guys I had given my number to, lol but now a days men act like they are scared to death to approach a woman! and I'm sorry but im old school I am not going to make the first move. So my daughters said you need to make the first move, so I was like ok Ill give it a shot, so I contacted someone on facebook that I was interested in, he was smart, and musical, things I do look for, so I thought what the heck Ill give it a shot, well that was a freaking waste of time, he acted like he didn't have the time of day for me, even though he wasn't by any standards gods gift to women..so Im not going to do that again that's for sure! anyways why are men so afraid to approach women? I was in a deli not to long ago and I could tell this man was interested in me, and he had no ring on, and I don't have a ring on, but he wouldn't approach me for nothing so I just left, and this whole internet dating thing, is a joke, all it is people looking for hookups..But I'm not going to give up!